WishDay

Birthday reminders that arrive on time and come with a wish already written

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Screenshot of WishDay, Birthday reminders that arrive on time and come with a wish already written

What is WishDay?

WishDay is a love message tool. A birthday reminder and greetings app for iOS and Android. WishDay sends alerts at a time you choose (same day, day before, or a week ahead) and drafts a personalized birthday message based on the person and the tone you pick, which you can edit, regenerate, and share to any messaging app.

WishDay is a mobile birthday tracker built around a simple observation: a calendar shows you the date, but it does not act on it. The app combines three things that usually live in separate places, a reminder system, an occasion calendar, and a greeting writer. You add the people you care about, choose when you want to be nudged, and when the day arrives you get both an alert and a draft message ready to review and send. The reminder side is unusually granular for a consumer app. For each person you can pick a same-day, day-before, or week-ahead alert, then set the delivery time down to 15-minute intervals. Alerts respect your timezone, which matters if you travel or keep family in another country. The calendar view flips between a list and a yearly grid so you can see who is today, who is next month, and which dates you have left blank. Anniversaries and other occasions sit alongside birthdays rather than in a second app. The greetings generator is where the AI sits. Each person carries a relationship and a preferred tone, and the generator produces a wish shaped by those settings plus a length and emoji level you control. Output can be regenerated, made warmer, made funnier, or shortened with taps, and nothing is sent automatically: you always read the draft first, then copy it or push it to WhatsApp, iMessage, SMS, or any other app through the share sheet. It is aimed at people with large families, wide friend groups, or client lists where a missed date is awkward. Contacts can be imported, and the app states that the address book stays on the device, with only confirmed name, birthday, and phone number saved. Everything is iOS and Android only, the app is ad-free, and free accounts are capped at 5 occasions and 8 greetings a month. Against a plain phone calendar or a contacts app with birthday fields, WishDay trades setup time for the writing and timing work you would otherwise do yourself.

How do you use WishDay?

  1. 1Install WishDay from the App Store or Google Play
    WishDay is mobile only. Use the download links or the QR code on the homepage to open the correct store listing for your device.
    WishDay — Install WishDay from the App Store or Google Play
  2. 2Add your first occasion
    Enter a name, birthday, and relationship, or pull the details from your contacts. The relationship feeds into how the greeting is later written.
  3. 3Set the alert time and lead
    Choose whether you want the reminder on the day, the day before, or a week ahead, then pick the exact time in 15-minute steps. Alerts follow your device timezone.
  4. 4Generate and adjust a greeting
    Pick a tone, length, and emoji level, then generate the wish. Use the adjustment controls to make it warmer, funnier, or shorter, or regenerate for a different take.
  5. 5Review and share
    Read the draft before anything leaves the app, then copy it or send it through WhatsApp, iMessage, SMS, or any app in the share sheet.
  6. 6Browse ready-made wish ideas
    If you would rather start from an existing message, the wishes library has collections for moms, partners, best friends, coworkers, and anniversaries.
    WishDay — Browse ready-made wish ideas

Pros and cons

Pros

  • Reminder timing is configurable to 15-minute intervals and follows your timezone, which is more control than most calendar apps offerAI
  • Greeting drafts are shaped by relationship, tone, length, and emoji level, then adjustable with one-tap rewritesAI
  • Contacts import keeps the address book on the device according to the app, and only confirmed details are storedAI
  • Calendar and list views plus anniversary support make it a single place for occasions, not just birthdaysAI
  • Ad-free with a stated no data selling policy, and account deletion is handled in-appAI

Cons

  • No web or desktop version, so the whole workflow depends on a phoneAI
  • Free tier is tight at 5 occasions and 8 AI greetings per month, which a large family will exhaust quicklyAI
  • Nothing is sent automatically: reminders and greetings both require you to open the app and actAI
  • No visible integration with Google Calendar, Apple Calendar, or other scheduling tools, so dates live only inside WishDayAI
  • The AI only writes wishes, with no support for related messages like thank-you notes or condolence messagesAI

How much does WishDay cost?

Pricing

Free plan includes 5 occasions and 8 AI-generated greetings per month. WishDay Pro unlocks unlimited occasions and greetings and is bought as an in-app upgrade; the homepage does not state the Pro price.

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Support

Help is limited to in-app settings, including a self-serve Delete Account option, and an account deletion information page on the website. No email or chat support channel is described on the homepage.

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Integrations

Sharing works through the system share sheet to WhatsApp, iMessage, SMS, and other apps. Contacts can be imported from the device address book, which the app says never leaves the phone.

Features

Birthday alerts with same-day, day-before, or week-ahead timing set to 15-minute precision and matched to your timezone. AI greetings generator driven by relationship, tone, length, and emoji level, with one-tap rewrites and regeneration. List and calendar views for the full year, plus anniversaries and other occasions, search and filtering, contacts import, and one-tap sharing to any messaging app.

Frequently asked questions about WishDay

  • How much does WishDay cost?
    Free plan includes 5 occasions and 8 AI-generated greetings per month. WishDay Pro unlocks unlimited occasions and greetings and is bought as an in-app upgrade; the homepage does not state the Pro price.
  • How do you use WishDay?
    The walkthrough on this page covers 6 steps: 1. Install WishDay from the App Store or Google Play 2. Add your first occasion 3. Set the alert time and lead 4. Generate and adjust a greeting 5. Review and share 6. Browse ready-made wish ideas.
  • What platforms does WishDay support?
    WishDay is available on iOS and Android.
  • What does WishDay integrate with?
    Sharing works through the system share sheet to WhatsApp, iMessage, SMS, and other apps. Contacts can be imported from the device address book, which the app says never leaves the phone.
  • What are the limitations of WishDay?
    No web or desktop version, so the whole workflow depends on a phone. Free tier is tight at 5 occasions and 8 AI greetings per month, which a large family will exhaust quickly. Nothing is sent automatically: reminders and greetings both require you to open the app and act.

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Added10/22/2026

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Pricing

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