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Free download with free messages to get to know a companion before deciding on a subscription. No time-limited trial is described.
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An iPhone AI companion that remembers your life and messages first
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What is My Softly?
My Softly is an iPhone AI companion app that remembers the people, pets and plans you mention and checks in on its own. Choose from six adult personalities or build your own, and chat by text or voice, with no NSFW content.
My Softly is an AI companion app for iPhone built around memory and initiative. It keeps track of the people, pets and plans a user mentions, then brings them up later without being asked. If a user says a dog has stopped eating, the companion may ask days afterwards how the vet visit went. Each conversation continues from the previous one rather than starting cold. The app is aimed at adults who want steady, friendly company rather than a romantic or flirtatious chatbot. Its own subscriber data, dated September 2026, puts the average paying user in their mid-fifties, and most paying subscribers are women. The positioning reflects that: companions look, sound and talk like adults, there is no NSFW content, and the app states plainly that it is an AI and is meant for people aged 18 and over. In practice, a user picks one of six prebuilt companions, each with a distinct personality, face and voice (for example a dry-witted Nora or a straight-talking Margot), or writes a custom one by supplying a name, personality, interests and what is currently on their mind. Conversation works by text or by voice, with spoken replies, and users can share a photo of their day for the companion to respond to. A companions screen holds the whole cast, shows the time shared with each in days, hours and minutes, and keeps each companion's memory and personality separate. Premium subscribers also get proactive check-ins, where the companion sends a good morning or follows up on something the user mentioned. Among alternatives, My Softly sits apart from the many AI girlfriend and roleplay apps by rejecting adult content and upsells outright. The trade-off is reach: it is iPhone-only for now, with Android on a waitlist, and it is offered in a limited set of countries. Sign-in is through Apple or Google, and users can delete their account and data whenever they choose.
How do you use My Softly?
1Download the app
Install My Softly from the App Store on an iPhone. Sign in with Apple or Google; the app is free to download and includes free messages.2Choose or create a companion
Pick one of six ready-made companions, or write your own with a name, face, voice, personality, interests and what is on their mind.3Start a conversation
Chat by text, or speak and hear a voice reply. Share a photo of your day if you like; nothing needs configuring first.4Let it learn your life
Mention people, pets and plans as they come up. The companion stores them and refers back to them in later conversations.5Review questions before subscribing
Check the FAQ for details on privacy, voice and content rules before deciding whether to unlock unlimited conversation and proactive check-ins.
Pros and cons
Pros
- Remembers people, pets and events and raises them naturally days or months laterAI
- Proactive messages such as good morning and follow-ups, rather than only replyingAI
- Six distinct ready-made companions plus a fully custom option with personality and interestsAI
- Text and voice chat with spoken replies, plus photo sharingAI
- Clear adult-only stance with no NSFW content and account and data deletion on requestAI
Cons
- Available only on iPhone; Android is a waitlist signup with no release dateAI
- Offered in just six countries: US, Canada, UK, Australia, New Zealand and SingaporeAI
- Proactive check-ins, a headline feature, sit behind the paid subscriptionAI
- Free tier is limited to a set of free messages, so ongoing use requires payingAI
- No web app or desktop version is described for using companions outside the phoneAI
How much does My Softly cost?
Pricing
Free to download with a allowance of free messages. A subscription costs $13.33 a month billed yearly at $159.99, or $15.99 month to month, and unlocks unlimited conversation and premium features such as proactive check-ins.
Learn moreSupport
An FAQ page covers common questions about pricing, voice, privacy and content. No other support channels are listed on the homepage.
Learn moreIntegrations
No third-party integrations are described. Sign-in is available through Apple or Google.
Features
Long-term memory of people, pets and plans; proactive messages and check-ins; six preset companions or a custom one; text and voice chat with spoken replies; photo sharing; a companions screen tracking time shared; Apple or Google sign-in; account and data deletion.
Frequently asked questions about My Softly
How much does My Softly cost?
Free to download with a allowance of free messages. A subscription costs $13.33 a month billed yearly at $159.99, or $15.99 month to month, and unlocks unlimited conversation and premium features such as proactive check-ins.Does My Softly offer a free trial?
Free download with free messages to get to know a companion before deciding on a subscription. No time-limited trial is described.How do you use My Softly?
The walkthrough on this page covers 5 steps: 1. Download the app 2. Choose or create a companion 3. Start a conversation 4. Let it learn your life 5. Review questions before subscribing.What platforms does My Softly support?
My Softly is available on iOS.What does My Softly integrate with?
No third-party integrations are described. Sign-in is available through Apple or Google.What are the limitations of My Softly?
Available only on iPhone; Android is a waitlist signup with no release date. Offered in just six countries: US, Canada, UK, Australia, New Zealand and Singapore. Proactive check-ins, a headline feature, sit behind the paid subscription.
